The Flogger
The Riding Crop
The Cane
The Wooden Paddle
The Tickler
Friday, October 15, 2010
Monday, October 11, 2010
Chapter 7 Teaser
Excitement coursed through my veins at the thought of having my first real scene with my Mistress. I had a Mistress! I couldn’t believe it was actually happening. In all my excitement, it dawned on me that that meant I needed to be waxed. I thought about ringing Alice to see where the best place to go was, but I worried that she was going to ask too many questions. Deciding I didn’t really have a choice, I picked up my cell and sifted through the contacts until I found Alice’s number.
“Hey, Edward.”
“Hey, Alice.”
“So, what can I do for you, big brother? Because I know you sure as hell aren’t calling me just to chat.” Damn Alice, always so perceptive.
“No, you’re right, I need a little info and was hoping you could assist.”
“Oh, and what kind of info, pray tell, are you after?”
“I need to get some waxing done and want to know where’s good.” I got it out as fast as I could.
“Excuse me, could you say that a little slower? I’m not sure, but I think I just heard you say you want to get some waxing done.”
“No, you heard correct,” I said, the embarrassment clear in my tone. ”I need to get some waxing done, and I was wondering if you could let me know where’s good to go.” I heard chuckles on the other end of the line. “Listen, Alice, if you’re going to continue laughing, I’m going to hang up.”
“No, no, don’t hang up. I’m sorry. I just never thought I would hear those words come out of your mouth. May I ask what kind of waxing you are after, so I can make sure I send you to the right place?”
“Let’s just say, places only a man can get waxed.” I heard more chuckles from Alice and was seriously regretting calling her in the first place. I growled down the line at her, indicating that I was not happy that she found my situation so amusing.
“Hey, Edward.”
“Hey, Alice.”
“So, what can I do for you, big brother? Because I know you sure as hell aren’t calling me just to chat.” Damn Alice, always so perceptive.
“No, you’re right, I need a little info and was hoping you could assist.”
“Oh, and what kind of info, pray tell, are you after?”
“I need to get some waxing done and want to know where’s good.” I got it out as fast as I could.
“Excuse me, could you say that a little slower? I’m not sure, but I think I just heard you say you want to get some waxing done.”
“No, you heard correct,” I said, the embarrassment clear in my tone. ”I need to get some waxing done, and I was wondering if you could let me know where’s good to go.” I heard chuckles on the other end of the line. “Listen, Alice, if you’re going to continue laughing, I’m going to hang up.”
“No, no, don’t hang up. I’m sorry. I just never thought I would hear those words come out of your mouth. May I ask what kind of waxing you are after, so I can make sure I send you to the right place?”
“Let’s just say, places only a man can get waxed.” I heard more chuckles from Alice and was seriously regretting calling her in the first place. I growled down the line at her, indicating that I was not happy that she found my situation so amusing.
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Bella's Limits
APPENDIX A
Check List of limits.
• First, mark with an X any item that you have already DONE.
• Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 4.
• NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
• 0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if they really wanted it (sometimes called a “soft limit”).
• 1 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
• 2 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
• 3 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
• 4 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
Note any additional information, which might be important for your Sub to know.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.
Abrasion 0
Age play 0
Anal plug (public, under clothes) X 3
Anal plugs X 4
Anal sex X 4
Animal roles 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) X 3
Asphyxiation/Breath Control /Choking X No
Auctioned for charity 0
Bathroom use control 1
Beating (hard) X 4
Beating (soft) X 4
Being bitten X 3
Blindfolds X 3
Bondage (heavy) X 3
Bondage (light) X 4
Bondage (public, under clothing) X 4
Branding No
Breast/chest bondage X 2
Cages/Cells/Closets (locked inside of) X 3
Caning X 3
Chastity belts X 3
Clothespins X 3
Cock whipping X 2
Cock worship X 4
Collars (worn in private) X 4
Collars (worn in public) X 3
Cuffs (leather/metal) X 3
Electricity X 2
Enforced chastity X 2
Exhibitionism (friends) X 2
Exhibitionism (strangers) 0
Eye contact restrictions X 2
Face slapping X 3
Fisting (anal) X 3
Following orders X 4
Foot/Boot/High heel worship X 2
Forced masturbation X 3
Forced nudity (around others) X 3
Forced nudity (private) X 3
Forced servitude X 3
Gags (cloth/rubber/tape) X 3
Gates of Hell (male) 3
Hand jobs (giving) X 3
Hand jobs (receiving) X 4
Harnessing (leather) X 3
Harnessing (rope) X 3
Having clothing chosen for you X 2
Having food chosen for you 2
Head (receiving/giving cunnilingus) X 4
Head (giving/receiving fellatio) X 4
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) 1
Hot oils (on genitals) No
Hot waxing X 3
Housework (doing) X 1
Humiliation (private) X 1
Humiliation (public) 1
Ice cubes X 3
Interrogations X 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage X 3
Kneeling X 3
Leather clothing X 3
Leather restraints X 3
Manacles & Irons X 3
Manicures (giving) X 1
Massage (giving) X 3
Massage (receiving) X 2
Modelling for erotic photos X 3
Mouth bits X 2
Mummification X 0
Nipple clamps X 3
Nipple weights X 4
Oral/anal play (rimming) X 4
Orgasm control X 3
Orgasm denial X 3
Outdoor scenes X 3
Outdoor sex X 3
Over-the-knee spanking X 4
Phone sex (serving Domme) 2
Piercing (permanent) 2
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) X 2
Pussy worship X 4
Riding crops X 4
Rituals 1
Rope body harness X 3
Rubber/latex clothing X 3
Saran wrapping X 2
Scratching - getting X 2
Scratching - giving X 2
Sensory deprivation X 1
Serving X 3
Serving as art X 3
Serving as furniture X 1
Serving as waiter X 3
Sexual deprivation (long term) 2
Sexual deprivation (short term) X 3
Shaving (body hair) X 2
Sleep deprivation X 1
Sleepsacks X 1
Spandex clothing X 2
Spanking X 4
Speech restrictions (when, what) X 3
Spreader bars X 3
Standing in corner 2
Stocks X 2
Strait jackets X 1
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) X 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) X 3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) X 3
Strapping (full body beating) 2
Suspension (horizontal) X 3
Suspension (inverted) X 3
Suspension (upright) X 3
Tattooing 2
Teasing X 3
Tickling X 2
Uniforms X 1
Vibrator on genitals X 4
Video (recordings of you) X 2
Video (watching others) X 2
Voyeurism (watching others) X 2
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) X 2
Wearing symbolic jewellery X 3
Whipping X 4
Wooden paddles X 4
Check List of limits.
• First, mark with an X any item that you have already DONE.
• Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 4.
• NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
• 0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if they really wanted it (sometimes called a “soft limit”).
• 1 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
• 2 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
• 3 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
• 4 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
Note any additional information, which might be important for your Sub to know.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.
Abrasion 0
Age play 0
Anal plug (public, under clothes) X 3
Anal plugs X 4
Anal sex X 4
Animal roles 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) X 3
Asphyxiation/Breath Control /Choking X No
Auctioned for charity 0
Bathroom use control 1
Beating (hard) X 4
Beating (soft) X 4
Being bitten X 3
Blindfolds X 3
Bondage (heavy) X 3
Bondage (light) X 4
Bondage (public, under clothing) X 4
Branding No
Breast/chest bondage X 2
Cages/Cells/Closets (locked inside of) X 3
Caning X 3
Chastity belts X 3
Clothespins X 3
Cock whipping X 2
Cock worship X 4
Collars (worn in private) X 4
Collars (worn in public) X 3
Cuffs (leather/metal) X 3
Electricity X 2
Enforced chastity X 2
Exhibitionism (friends) X 2
Exhibitionism (strangers) 0
Eye contact restrictions X 2
Face slapping X 3
Fisting (anal) X 3
Following orders X 4
Foot/Boot/High heel worship X 2
Forced masturbation X 3
Forced nudity (around others) X 3
Forced nudity (private) X 3
Forced servitude X 3
Gags (cloth/rubber/tape) X 3
Gates of Hell (male) 3
Hand jobs (giving) X 3
Hand jobs (receiving) X 4
Harnessing (leather) X 3
Harnessing (rope) X 3
Having clothing chosen for you X 2
Having food chosen for you 2
Head (receiving/giving cunnilingus) X 4
Head (giving/receiving fellatio) X 4
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) 1
Hot oils (on genitals) No
Hot waxing X 3
Housework (doing) X 1
Humiliation (private) X 1
Humiliation (public) 1
Ice cubes X 3
Interrogations X 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage X 3
Kneeling X 3
Leather clothing X 3
Leather restraints X 3
Manacles & Irons X 3
Manicures (giving) X 1
Massage (giving) X 3
Massage (receiving) X 2
Modelling for erotic photos X 3
Mouth bits X 2
Mummification X 0
Nipple clamps X 3
Nipple weights X 4
Oral/anal play (rimming) X 4
Orgasm control X 3
Orgasm denial X 3
Outdoor scenes X 3
Outdoor sex X 3
Over-the-knee spanking X 4
Phone sex (serving Domme) 2
Piercing (permanent) 2
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) X 2
Pussy worship X 4
Riding crops X 4
Rituals 1
Rope body harness X 3
Rubber/latex clothing X 3
Saran wrapping X 2
Scratching - getting X 2
Scratching - giving X 2
Sensory deprivation X 1
Serving X 3
Serving as art X 3
Serving as furniture X 1
Serving as waiter X 3
Sexual deprivation (long term) 2
Sexual deprivation (short term) X 3
Shaving (body hair) X 2
Sleep deprivation X 1
Sleepsacks X 1
Spandex clothing X 2
Spanking X 4
Speech restrictions (when, what) X 3
Spreader bars X 3
Standing in corner 2
Stocks X 2
Strait jackets X 1
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) X 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) X 3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) X 3
Strapping (full body beating) 2
Suspension (horizontal) X 3
Suspension (inverted) X 3
Suspension (upright) X 3
Tattooing 2
Teasing X 3
Tickling X 2
Uniforms X 1
Vibrator on genitals X 4
Video (recordings of you) X 2
Video (watching others) X 2
Voyeurism (watching others) X 2
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) X 2
Wearing symbolic jewellery X 3
Whipping X 4
Wooden paddles X 4
Monday, September 27, 2010
Chapter 6 Teaser
Here it is. Hopefully I should have chapter 6 up some time in the next week. Hopefully(she says praying to the beta gods).
“So, either Leah kidnapped you, or you guys hit it off.”
“Oh, Bella, you have no idea,” Jake responded, his eye’s almost twinkling with joy.
“Oh, I think I might,” I said under my breath.
“Bella, thank you,” he said.
“What are you thanking me for? I didn’t do anything.”
“Yes you did,” he argued. “If you hadn’t ended our arrangement, I never would have realised how stale our play had gotten. I mean, yeah, I was pissed when it happened and shocked at how fast everything changed. However, the last two days with Leah have been amazing; she knew exactly how to push my buttons. I have never been in so much pain and so turned on at the same time, ever.”
“Well, I am glad that you had a good time.” Because I was. I wanted nothing but the best for Jake. I may not have been in love with Jake, but I did love him very much and wanted him to be happy. I sat down next to Jake on the couch. It was only then I noticed the chocker he was wearing.
“So, either Leah kidnapped you, or you guys hit it off.”
“Oh, Bella, you have no idea,” Jake responded, his eye’s almost twinkling with joy.
“Oh, I think I might,” I said under my breath.
“Bella, thank you,” he said.
“What are you thanking me for? I didn’t do anything.”
“Yes you did,” he argued. “If you hadn’t ended our arrangement, I never would have realised how stale our play had gotten. I mean, yeah, I was pissed when it happened and shocked at how fast everything changed. However, the last two days with Leah have been amazing; she knew exactly how to push my buttons. I have never been in so much pain and so turned on at the same time, ever.”
“Well, I am glad that you had a good time.” Because I was. I wanted nothing but the best for Jake. I may not have been in love with Jake, but I did love him very much and wanted him to be happy. I sat down next to Jake on the couch. It was only then I noticed the chocker he was wearing.
Friday, September 24, 2010
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Ten Basics for Submissives Interest in Femdom
Here they are for those of you that were curious as to what they are.
1. Be Patient…A potential top or Mistress /Domme will let you know if she is interested in you or not. Keep in mind that your purpose as a submissive is to serve and to satisfy someone who will take into consideration the realization of your fantasies. Don't expect your top to be able to turn on like a light switch. The timing must be right for both of you.
2. Be Humble…You may be God's gift to the world and the most sought after prize in town, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunity to show how good you are. No matter what you claim, the “real you” will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for failure by developing expectations that you know you and your top can never reach.
3. Be Open…You can learn something about SM and about yourself from everyone into the scene, no matter how experienced or inexperienced they are, or how dominant or submissive they are. D/s- SM is a very personal art, and an “I already know it all” attitude will make you miss valuable SM lessons and experiences, and ignore potentially valuable D/s-SM friends.
4. Communicate…Verbalization is necessary, but at the appropriate time and in the appropriate way. Your top needs to know basic information about you, such as experiences, fantasies, health concerns, and turnoffs. But - unless it's an emergency - wait until your top asks. Don't expect your dominant to be a mind-reader who instinctively knows your needs, wants, and limits. Your cooperation will enhance the scene for both of you.
5. Be Honest…Don't be afraid to share your needs and fantasies. Your dominant expects it. Honesty about your wants, health concerns, and turnoffs is essential to a good scene. Lying or being less than candid can only lead to problems, as the top will base the scene on inaccurate information. Besides causing problems, it can be dangerous.
6. Be Vulnerable…Your scene is a two-way street. It is not just the physical realization of your prior fantasies. If you want to limit your experience to certain physical and psychological stimulation, then contract with your top ahead of time. But don't always expect your top to be a puppet in a fantasy play you've written in your head. It's far better to let your top surprise you, to extend your limits, to take you to places you're never been before. When you trust your top completely, let her know it, and let her guide you into new fantasies.
7. Be Realistic…Your dominant is human, and even the most experienced tops have moments of awkwardness and indecision. Don't call attention to what you perceive as a lapse. Know the difference between reality and the fantasy world you see in books and magazines. Few tops are rich enough to afford a large dungeon with a lavish layout of equipment. Your top's equipment is expensive - respect it and don't abuse it.
8. Be really Submissive…This is the whole point. Let your dominant take you over completely. Don't coach or second guess or be critical of your top. Exchange information on your special needs before the scene starts, but once it starts be quiet! If you insist on running a scene to your own specifications, then loyal and dependable and enjoy your role
9. Be Healthy…D/s-SM, like any strenuous activity, requires that its participants - both active and passive - be in top physical and emotional health. The amount you sleep, your eating habits, your alcohol and drug intake, and everyday stress affect your response and endurance during a scene. Your dominant needs to know when your physical or emotional energy is low. No matter how tempting a scene sounds, an “I want it all now” attitude when you aren't able to give your all will leave both of you feeling let down. You serve your dominant and yourself best by staying healthy.
10. Have Fun…After all; sex/play is all about having a good time. You have earned and you are entitled to the unique, intense pleasure which comes from responsible, creative D/s-SM play.
1. Be Patient…A potential top or Mistress /Domme will let you know if she is interested in you or not. Keep in mind that your purpose as a submissive is to serve and to satisfy someone who will take into consideration the realization of your fantasies. Don't expect your top to be able to turn on like a light switch. The timing must be right for both of you.
2. Be Humble…You may be God's gift to the world and the most sought after prize in town, but no one needs to hear it or wants to hear it. You will have ample opportunity to show how good you are. No matter what you claim, the “real you” will show through in a scene. Don't set yourself up for failure by developing expectations that you know you and your top can never reach.
3. Be Open…You can learn something about SM and about yourself from everyone into the scene, no matter how experienced or inexperienced they are, or how dominant or submissive they are. D/s- SM is a very personal art, and an “I already know it all” attitude will make you miss valuable SM lessons and experiences, and ignore potentially valuable D/s-SM friends.
4. Communicate…Verbalization is necessary, but at the appropriate time and in the appropriate way. Your top needs to know basic information about you, such as experiences, fantasies, health concerns, and turnoffs. But - unless it's an emergency - wait until your top asks. Don't expect your dominant to be a mind-reader who instinctively knows your needs, wants, and limits. Your cooperation will enhance the scene for both of you.
5. Be Honest…Don't be afraid to share your needs and fantasies. Your dominant expects it. Honesty about your wants, health concerns, and turnoffs is essential to a good scene. Lying or being less than candid can only lead to problems, as the top will base the scene on inaccurate information. Besides causing problems, it can be dangerous.
6. Be Vulnerable…Your scene is a two-way street. It is not just the physical realization of your prior fantasies. If you want to limit your experience to certain physical and psychological stimulation, then contract with your top ahead of time. But don't always expect your top to be a puppet in a fantasy play you've written in your head. It's far better to let your top surprise you, to extend your limits, to take you to places you're never been before. When you trust your top completely, let her know it, and let her guide you into new fantasies.
7. Be Realistic…Your dominant is human, and even the most experienced tops have moments of awkwardness and indecision. Don't call attention to what you perceive as a lapse. Know the difference between reality and the fantasy world you see in books and magazines. Few tops are rich enough to afford a large dungeon with a lavish layout of equipment. Your top's equipment is expensive - respect it and don't abuse it.
8. Be really Submissive…This is the whole point. Let your dominant take you over completely. Don't coach or second guess or be critical of your top. Exchange information on your special needs before the scene starts, but once it starts be quiet! If you insist on running a scene to your own specifications, then loyal and dependable and enjoy your role
9. Be Healthy…D/s-SM, like any strenuous activity, requires that its participants - both active and passive - be in top physical and emotional health. The amount you sleep, your eating habits, your alcohol and drug intake, and everyday stress affect your response and endurance during a scene. Your dominant needs to know when your physical or emotional energy is low. No matter how tempting a scene sounds, an “I want it all now” attitude when you aren't able to give your all will leave both of you feeling let down. You serve your dominant and yourself best by staying healthy.
10. Have Fun…After all; sex/play is all about having a good time. You have earned and you are entitled to the unique, intense pleasure which comes from responsible, creative D/s-SM play.
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Chapter 5 Teaser
Oh, my god Bella wants me to be her sub.
The whole way home, I just kept thinking the same thing. I couldn’t believe how the night had gone. I thought at first that it was going to be weird, engaging in sex play with my secretary of all people, but it wasn’t. In fact, she is unbelievably sexy and it was one of the most erotic experiences of my life.
When I got home, I was still hard as steel. I knew I wasn’t allowed to relieve the situation but I also knew that there was no way I was going to fall asleep as hard as I was. I headed straight up to the shower and turned only the cold water on. After fifteen minutes of freezing cold-water pounding down on my dick, it was numb but still hard. I tried thinking of anything that would normally turn me off; they did work a little but the moment I stopped thinking about them my thoughts immediately returned to Bella and then I was hard again. In the end, I gave up and just climbed into bed. I must have been more exhausted than I realised because despite my situation, sleep claimed me relatively quickly. It was one of the best night’s sleep I had had in a long while.
The whole way home, I just kept thinking the same thing. I couldn’t believe how the night had gone. I thought at first that it was going to be weird, engaging in sex play with my secretary of all people, but it wasn’t. In fact, she is unbelievably sexy and it was one of the most erotic experiences of my life.
When I got home, I was still hard as steel. I knew I wasn’t allowed to relieve the situation but I also knew that there was no way I was going to fall asleep as hard as I was. I headed straight up to the shower and turned only the cold water on. After fifteen minutes of freezing cold-water pounding down on my dick, it was numb but still hard. I tried thinking of anything that would normally turn me off; they did work a little but the moment I stopped thinking about them my thoughts immediately returned to Bella and then I was hard again. In the end, I gave up and just climbed into bed. I must have been more exhausted than I realised because despite my situation, sleep claimed me relatively quickly. It was one of the best night’s sleep I had had in a long while.
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