Bella's Limits

APPENDIX A
Check List of limits.
• First, mark with an X any item that you have already DONE.
• Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 4.
• NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
• 0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if they really wanted it (sometimes called a “soft limit”).
• 1 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
• 2 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
• 3 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
• 4 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.
Note any additional information, which might be important for your Sub to know.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.

Abrasion 0
Age play 0
Anal plug (public, under clothes) X 3
Anal plugs X 4
Anal sex X 4
Animal roles 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) X 3
Asphyxiation/Breath Control /Choking X No
Auctioned for charity 0
Bathroom use control 1
Beating (hard) X 4
Beating (soft) X 4
Being bitten X 3
Blindfolds X 3
Bondage (heavy) X 3
Bondage (light) X 4
Bondage (public, under clothing) X 4
Branding No
Breast/chest bondage X 2
Cages/Cells/Closets (locked inside of) X 3
Caning X 3
Chastity belts X 3
Clothespins X 3
Cock whipping X 2
Cock worship X 4
Collars (worn in private) X 4
Collars (worn in public) X 3
Cuffs (leather/metal) X 3
Electricity X 2
Enforced chastity X 2
Exhibitionism (friends) X 2
Exhibitionism (strangers) 0
Eye contact restrictions X 2
Face slapping X 3
Fisting (anal) X 3
Following orders X 4
Foot/Boot/High heel worship X 2
Forced masturbation X 3
Forced nudity (around others) X 3
Forced nudity (private) X 3
Forced servitude X 3
Gags (cloth/rubber/tape) X 3
Gates of Hell (male) 3
Hand jobs (giving) X 3
Hand jobs (receiving) X 4
Harnessing (leather) X 3
Harnessing (rope) X 3
Having clothing chosen for you X 2
Having food chosen for you 2
Head (receiving/giving cunnilingus) X 4
Head (giving/receiving fellatio) X 4
Homage with tongue (non-sexual) 1
Hot oils (on genitals) No
Hot waxing X 3
Housework (doing) X 1
Humiliation (private) X 1
Humiliation (public) 1
Ice cubes X 3
Interrogations X 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage X 3
Kneeling X 3
Leather clothing X 3
Leather restraints X 3
Manacles & Irons X 3
Manicures (giving) X 1
Massage (giving) X 3
Massage (receiving) X 2
Modelling for erotic photos X 3
Mouth bits X 2
Mummification X 0
Nipple clamps X 3
Nipple weights X 4
Oral/anal play (rimming) X 4
Orgasm control X 3
Orgasm denial X 3
Outdoor scenes X 3
Outdoor sex X 3
Over-the-knee spanking X 4
Phone sex (serving Domme) 2
Piercing (permanent) 2
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) X 2
Pussy worship X 4
Riding crops X 4
Rituals 1
Rope body harness X 3
Rubber/latex clothing X 3
Saran wrapping X 2
Scratching - getting X 2
Scratching - giving X 2
Sensory deprivation X 1
Serving X 3
Serving as art X 3
Serving as furniture X 1
Serving as waiter X 3
Sexual deprivation (long term) 2
Sexual deprivation (short term) X 3
Shaving (body hair) X 2
Sleep deprivation X 1
Sleepsacks X 1
Spandex clothing X 2
Spanking X 4
Speech restrictions (when, what) X 3
Spreader bars X 3
Standing in corner 2
Stocks X 2
Strait jackets X 1
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) X 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) X 3
Strap-on-dildos (wearing) X 3
Strapping (full body beating) 2
Suspension (horizontal) X 3
Suspension (inverted) X 3
Suspension (upright) X 3
Tattooing 2
Teasing X 3
Tickling X 2
Uniforms X 1
Vibrator on genitals X 4
Video (recordings of you) X 2
Video (watching others) X 2
Voyeurism (watching others) X 2
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) X 2
Wearing symbolic jewellery X 3
Whipping X 4
Wooden paddles X 4